Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Till now we still speak about strong of thinking, Positive thinking is probably the most powerful tool we have to influence our attitude. Positive thinking is the result when we learn to only speak words that are positive-both to others and to ourself.

'The power of positive thinking and attitude'
Words are powerful, not only the written word, but also the spoken word. Most of us are aware of the power our words have on others. Words directed at others can tear down or lift up. They can change previously "made-up" minds. They can encourage the discouraged. They can inspire those who previously had no inspiration.

However, we usually do not realize that our words exert that same power over us. When we make a statement, such as, "I am just having a bad day", we re-enforce that concept in our own mind. It then can become a self full-filling prophecy. If we say, "I'm not like Bil", you can be sure of one fact. You will never write as well as Bil. Your statement will influence your actions and you will not put forth your best effort. You could, however, use your words to encourage yourself with statements such as, "Bil is a great singer. I believe if I put my mind to it, I can also sing that well". By the simple act of using your words to encourage yourself, you will have given yourself a chance to put forth your best effort and equal or perhaps surpass the Singing ability you see in others. I am not optimist. I know we all daily cope with circumstances that make life difficult, at best. But, I believe that words have great influence and that the first person who should reap the benefit of your words should be you. When you are influenced positively by your own words, then you are much more effective in using your words to influence others. Try listening to your spoken word to identify ways you could change your attitude and improve your life.

Here is explanation detail about attitude :

1. Fight and Aggress Attitude
This attitude have wild characteristic. Some psychology call it as wild attitude. This attitude become of someone if there are danger thretening or there are barred in create of desirability. Maybe causal factor are afraid, unselfreliant, and not able to act as brake in situation with other way. In this condition, someone statement apt to abrupt, blow top, will aggress, and change their expression. Someone use this attitude to clear the track for buck passing or lay down the law to other people.

2. Obedient and Accepting Attitude
The kind of this attitude usefull for someone cause some reason, that is :
  1. To get out of clash with other people
  2. To get out of challenge
  3. To get out of negative challenge impact, and
  4. Don't wanna be center of interest

That reasons be based of afraid to brave challenge and impact. And also because someone judge acceptance society is important. Therefore, they don't dissapointed other people. They want be acceptable by society till willing bringing down of rightful authority. They don't say 'No' for anybody. With that method, they feel calm cause always feel acceptable by society.

3. Assertive and Selfreliant Attitude
It is say, assertive and selfreliant attitude be diffirent foor man and woman. Man with it must have capability of control and capable act as brake in him self to interacting with other people. woman with it apt to bossed and be dictator. she is want to show other people that her self can carried the ball cause capacity her skill.

18 comments:

desti said...

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moenas said...

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♥ria♥ said...

Nice article ^^

tirah watif said...

u wrote it by ur own meyh?

Aidi-Safuan said...

ur own experience?

nicoxie said...

wow~ i love this title. and i truly agree with you that Attitude Influenced by Thinking... everyone is like that~ :)

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Jackson said...

So, Always positive thinking...

Dashing Days said...

interesting facts u have here =D

OngeSZ said...

Nice Post... ;)

theme_P said...

wow..
sometimes balancing act and thoughts,consider in what we can control urself or seeing the reality..
n keep spiritttttttttttttttt
always

UNIC66 said...

nice article

Jaz said...

Sorry, you said "thanks" at my tagboard on my site, what did you mean? i never give any comment here...i don't understand :(

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