Friday, January 1, 2010

Shaking Hands

Shaking hands is a human habit to interact with each other, meaning many of them shaking hands with, a relationship, kinship to build cooperation in a business. The handshake itself has a long ethical force, as shaking hands shows personality. maybe we often underestimate the ethics shake hands, but on or within a particular group handshake is very important and meaningful! can-we can not get a response or less than a behavior we just shook hands with the wrong attitude!

Do you remember how upset you are when shaking hands with someone who gave a very weak position limp or otherwise too loud excited.

Do not let your people categorized as either not impressive when shaking hands. Here are some techniques of effective handshake:
  1. Look at the other person's eyes while shaking hands with him. There is nothing more than ignoring the handshake without eyes. This shows disrespect or not interested. By looking the other person when shaking hands, you develop confidence and self-confidence.
  2. Shake hands from palm to palm. Do not shake hands with the palms to reconcile with the fingers, or fingers with a finger. With shaking hands from palm to palm (whole) will give the feeling friendly and not leave feeling uncomfortable or hurt.
  3. Do not be too familiar. Some people act in excess by pulling your opponent's hand and a hard swing to the top down. These handshake with "big mouth". Be confident, do not make other people upset.
  4. Realize the limitations of physical person. The elderly, disabled, or the patient may have a bone arthistis the weak and limited motion. Hurt someone when shaking hands may actually close the door instead of opening the door a good relationship.
  5. Remember to create a meaningful handshake. If you shook hands and quickly pull your hand and continue the conversation as if nothing happened, then people will regard it as insignificant handshake and insincere.
Give your opponent a few moments to show your attention through eye contact or conversation before you pull your hands. They will feel that they are met with a decent person.

24 comments:

biyaa said...

it's nice tips ....

BoyKidlat said...

If I may add.

hold hand firmly. not tight. not awkward. just firm.

and one light shake is enough. ^^

Wawank said...

I will try your tips!
Thx!

amrihdwf said...

Hi Yunchun,
tips we all should know. The important thing to make "sharp" impression during shaking hand.

Sorry, little bit out of topic. I like your BG song. I find your music player is so fluent in playing the music. I rarely found in other blogs with same player. Usually in my standard internet connection, in other blogs the music played slightly hiccough. Is is any modification or trick to make it so?

elyas ngeblog said...

i want to shake hands with yuyunchun

Osi said...

I will try...thanks Yunchun

Pecinta Kuliner said...

Nice posting, sist.. :D

yeanyanbin said...

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Nikel Khor said...

i like tis...thx ar

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Gadis n Frank said...

hi....thanks for visiting...i like ur territory...

tito said...

good post tips for shaking hands, thanks for sharing :)

cheyenn said...

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ronaldoedi said...

yes yuncum

Su aka YSW said...

and make sure your hands are not wet!

ellaa said...

Hmm, I'm liking the tips - it'll really make good use in the future! ;)

Sebalai said...

I come and keep a nice friendship to you

Rainbow said...

Take my sweet regard to you please

Syifa Ahira said...

nice tips :)

kartu kredit said...

nice post

arazy said...

nice

mbc said...

nice blog

learn said...

trimakasih kunjunganya

Ambae.exe said...

to shake hands can be cure homesickness

Bonthain said...

let's shake hands

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