Overcoming Disappointment

People who managed to overcome his disappointment to find the door behind the failure of success.

Disappointed is a part of life. No one is immune from feeling disappointed. During still spinning wheel of the life, the struggle of life is continues. Various desires and expectations are still stored in our hearts. Along the same feelings of disappointment still can remove the inner.

Parents can be upset with children, a wife was disappointed in her husband. Employee was disappointed with the supervisor, disillusioned people to the leaders. And vice versa. Disappointment can occur at any time to anyone. Male or female, young or old, rich or poor, noble or humble. Disappointment is the most natural thing in our lives.

But why anyone would destroy his own life because of the disappointment? Disappointment is not stored and managed will bring bitterness. Not in line with expectations

Hope is always giving encouragement and enthusiasm. But the fact is not in line with expectations lead to feelings of disappointment. Many people like to hope but not ready to face reality.

Experiencing failure

Everyone loves to success. Businesses that successfully achieve the target of giving satisfaction. But if we put a price on success, we would be hard to accept failure as success.

Unfulfilled wishes

Every man is tempted by his own desires. Desire is not subject to self-mastery into an ambition. Ambition eventually mastering our passions. Unfulfilled ambition cause deep disappointment.

Lose in competition

In a healthy competition, losing or winning is not everything. But what is the meaning and essence of the competition. At least we can measure the achievement and was trying to do my best. But competition is colored wrong motivation to make us slumped in disappointment if you have a defeat.

Experiencing rejection

We're happy if it can be accepted in an environment where we are. But to be accepted, we can not fulfill all the wishes of others. If we do good with an attitude of self-interest, we would be disappointed if experiencing rejection.

Roots Feeling Disappointed

Disappointment is part of life. We can not deny or become immune to it. As long as there is still life, a sense of disappointment is part of a colorful life.

Disappointment happens not in the mind but in heart. Disappointment was not rational. Disappointment was triggered by a feeling aspects:

» Feeling entitled, disappointed not to get what he regarded as a right or property.

» Feeling right, disappointed because the existence of self-blame and opinion.

» Feeling betrayed, disappointed that his faith challenged and abused.

There are three things that must be developed to overcome the disappointment:

¤ Positive Thinking

¤ Be contributive

¤ Acting productive

Hopefully this can provide enlightenment for you all, keep the spirit and always think positive.