Tuesday, November 9, 2010

People who managed to overcome his disappointment to find the door behind the failure of success.

Disappointed is a part of life. No one is immune from feeling disappointed. During still spinning wheel of the life, the struggle of life is continues. Various desires and expectations are still stored in our hearts. Along the same feelings of disappointment still can remove the inner.

Parents can be upset with children, a wife was disappointed in her husband. Employee was disappointed with the supervisor, disillusioned people to the leaders. And vice versa. Disappointment can occur at any time to anyone. Male or female, young or old, rich or poor, noble or humble. Disappointment is the most natural thing in our lives.

But why anyone would destroy his own life because of the disappointment? Disappointment is not stored and managed will bring bitterness. Not in line with expectations

Hope is always giving encouragement and enthusiasm. But the fact is not in line with expectations lead to feelings of disappointment. Many people like to hope but not ready to face reality.

Monday, August 23, 2010

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." ~Marianne Williamson

How long have you waited to be happy at work, to write a book, or bring home the income you deserve? Are you your own best support system or biggest diversion? Consider the cheetah which has no problem using its gift of speed. The bald eagle easily leverages its keen eye sight and ability to soar. Dolphins joyfully exert their playfulness. Imagine what is possible for humans with our unique gift of the mind if we focus on what serves us versus what holds us back. Discover four steps to set your mind for success.

  1. Know what is limiting you~ Let's investigate a mystery. What beliefs are at your core? Pay attention for one week to the self-limiting beliefs that show up. As a detective, be consciously aware. Keep a journal handy for notes.

    Beliefs can show up as a label you place upon yourself attached to an assumption such as Parent- there is only so much I can do or Owner- I can't count on anyone but myself. They can reveal themselves in negative statements such as “I can’t be…”, “I can’t do…”, “I’m not good enough”," I’m not smart enough," "I never complete anything," etc. Beliefs may be uncovered in an assumption such as “there’s not enough time”, “that’s too hard", or “he’ll say ‘no’ ”. Write down the beliefs you notice that restrain you from what you want.

Thursday, June 10, 2010

OK... still discussing about mindset ...
I really like reading an article about mindset, because I think this is very interesting related to ourselves, how we think and the way we live. very interesting to learn. And this time I took the article from Sopan Greene, M.A. . Sopan is an author, mentor and teacher who is well loved and respected. Personal, compassionate, humorous, inspiring and full of innocent wonder. Sopan is skilled at working with people ready for change, raising their consciousness and upgrading their quality of life. His leading edge systems deliver results which many are joyfully choosing in today’s fearful, frustrating and stressful times.
I think this article is very useful for those of you who are always affected by mindset that has been embedded in the head as well as your lives. And this could be a problem in your life going forward.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Feelings of stress are often the enemy in the blanket. This feeling came to a sudden and often difficult to control. Especially when we have a lot of unfinished work in the office and at home. Stress can cause various diseases in the future, such as heart disease, high blood pressure and stroke. Like there's a saying, "umbrella ready before the rain" (LOL), it helps us avoid srtess in the following way.
  1. Positive Thinking.
    Remove the positive energy in yourself to always think positive and optimistic in the face of every problem. Realize that in every problem there must be a way out. Also don't be too hard on yourself. Know that every plan that has been made would not necessarily be achieved because of the obstruction. Be more flexible so you can better enjoy life.
  2. Maintain health.
    In a healthy body there is a healthy soul. So, keep your body's health with regular exercise, adequate sleep and eat nutritious balanced meals. If the body can stimulate the release of endorphine is the substance that makes the body feel good, so people who exercise regularly usually looks healthy and happy. Regular exercise should also be supported with diet and good rest.

Thursday, March 11, 2010

No such thing as boy and girl?, Whether this sentence correct?? The distinctions we use to separate men from women, and the qualities that go into what we call Masculine and feminine. All things being equal, we are born with a Clearly defined biological sex. We are born male or female, but we are not born boy or girl. That distinction must be taught. That distinction can only come from the culture around us. The media teaches us that only men can be corporate executives. Our families teach us that girls wear dresses and are cleaner, happier, and more polite than boys.

It would help to begin by defining what we mean by "gender." Gender does not mean biological sex. Often from the very moment of birth, infant males are dressed in blue, and infant females in pink, from that point on they can start becoming boys and girls. Here are some things that show the differences between men and women :
  1. Adult male and female humans exhibit many biological distinctions, for which one can immediately see for yourself, very clearly the difference.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

I believe in this world have only two thoughts, the first is "positive thinking" and the second is "negative thinking". If you always positive thinking so many things that you will get to make your life better. But how about the people who always think negative? Negative thinking does not carry anywhere, only worsen mood, and be bad for our performance. This could be The Ring of will never see the base of the tip.

then how can I fix?
Well, some things that may help to prevent and overcome negative thoughts which are as follows:
  1. Consider Living in the moment.
    Remember that only the present that we can control. Do not think about the things that has not happened or had happened, and make it into the power implanted for us to live in the moment.

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

hi all ... Valentine's Day is coming, had prepared a gift for your loved ones ??
okay for this time, we will discuss how to celebrate Valentine cross country LOL. So for you who experienced long-distance relationship, this must be your thoughts. Don't be sad because a lot of things we can do with a partner, although far apart.

well... as we all know, Valentine's Day is a day full of love LOL (but true love can every day... not only Valentine's Day, I think), but for me valentine day is chocolate day of the world LOL (who's gonna give me chocolate?? hehe ).
Well... Valentine's Day on 14th February, all the couples compete to show his love by giving flowers or chocolate as a symbol of love for lover (except my boyfriend LOL).

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Until now we always talk about the "mind" but if you already know for sure that the definition of the mind?
To speak about the definition of mind, very difficult to define with
words. The mind is the mind itself, the mind is not the body, it can be said that the mind plays a very important role in human happiness itself. With our minds can act either negatively or positively with the appropriate reward to the act.

How to control our thoughts? This question often I find and I heard from my friends. We can control our minds through the five senses we are already there since birth is: Eyes, nose, ears, skin and tongue.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

All human always had this experience. As bad mood can make us quick-tempered and sensitive, are not aware we can issue harsh words or less enjoyable. And it is this which makes the people around us feel uncomfortable.

No hypocrite, I am also so ((: LoL:)). I don't know why ??
According to my research a lot of reasons that cause a bad mood and cause bad tempered. The following are some reasons that I can from my experience and my research:
  1. Office environment, Because scolded leaders or be gossip material in the office.

Sunday, January 10, 2010

You have a bad habit? should leave your bad habits. As we know, the brain is a vital part of the center of the control of all the nerve. The brain also regulates heart rate, blood pressure, muscle movement, body temperature, memory function, emotion and so on.
For that, the brain needs to be maintained properly, and following some behavior or habit that may weaken the human brain works:

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Yesterday, I opened blog a friend and found writing about Facebook. Hopefully useful for all ...

A friend complained, "her account facebook has been hacked ". All the photos gone. Can not login. In the end, my friend had received email containing the threat from hackers. His photographs will be modified in such a way as to be immoral photos complete with negative stories. Photos and stories will be distributed all over the world, except my friends want to pay according to the hacker wants.

Monday, January 4, 2010

Wow ... "From Zero to Hero" seems to be very difficult to imagine let alone for the achieved. Being a successful requires effort was not easy.. Many people start a success from the bottom as the saying goes "from zero to hero".

To achieve success you must instill in your mind that "Never give up". And there are some components that you must have... -Vision-, that is what you want to achieve, -Spirit-, meaning the more your spirit the more you earn, -Hard work-, meaning you have to work hard to obtain results that camp provides an opportunity for your success, -Learning-meaning more and more is learned, the more you know to be successful.

Friday, January 1, 2010

Shaking Hands

Shaking hands is a human habit to interact with each other, meaning many of them shaking hands with, a relationship, kinship to build cooperation in a business. The handshake itself has a long ethical force, as shaking hands shows personality. maybe we often underestimate the ethics shake hands, but on or within a particular group handshake is very important and meaningful! can-we can not get a response or less than a behavior we just shook hands with the wrong attitude!

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

All around the world people Celebrate New Year's Day is one of the oldest and most-exciting customs traditions from their country.

New Year's Day is thought of as a perfect time for a "clean start" or New Year's resolutions. People worldwide resolve to act better in the year just beginning than in the year just ended.

Learning about the traditions practiced in other cultures is a fun way to gain respect and acceptance for others sometimes appear different then we are. No day has ever been observed on so many different dates or in so many different ways, It is also a positive step to teaching children to be non-prejudice in a fun way as well.

Monday, December 28, 2009

You can start fantasizing about your ambition, the closets you'll clean, where the places you'll go. However, pulsing in the recesses of your mind is a whisper: You know you should plan next year. It would be so useful to reflect on what you did this year, to pull together some resources for a new unit, and to crack open that book on teaching writing that everyone says you should read. Once you start, you'll get into it, and you'll thank yourself next year.


Most people think they are good listeners, but the truth is many of us are better at telling our own story than listening to someone else's. Remember, knowing how to listen properly is as essential to good communication as talking.

That said, the idea that you can be a good listener all the time is self-defeating, especially when it's with a partner you see every day. If you want to listen wellm choose the discussions that really matter and focus on those. Then the other person will know that when it's important, you'll make the effort to be attentive.

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Till now we still speak about strong of thinking, Positive thinking is probably the most powerful tool we have to influence our attitude. Positive thinking is the result when we learn to only speak words that are positive-both to others and to ourself.

'The power of positive thinking and attitude'
Words are powerful, not only the written word, but also the spoken word. Most of us are aware of the power our words have on others. Words directed at others can tear down or lift up. They can change previously "made-up" minds. They can encourage the discouraged. They can inspire those who previously had no inspiration.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

"Today is Mother's Day in Indonesia..."
In 1928, a group of pioneering women gathered together to hold "The First Congress of Indonesian Women" in Yogyakarta from Dec. 22 till 25. This momentous event, held at the building later to be named "Mandalabhakti Wanita Tama", on Jl. Adisucipto, was attended by some 30 women's organizations from 12 cities in Java and Sumatra. One of the results of this congress was the formation of what is now called Kongres Wanita Indonesia, The All-Indonesian Women's Congress.
Mother's Day have been recognized in special ways for thousands of years. It's celebrated in over 40 countries around the world! The exact date and the way this event is celebrated, however, varies from country to country since Ancient Greece. Here is a glimpse of today's Mother's Day celebrations as done worldwide. Know about the different ways in which this heartwarming occasion is celebrated in different countries of the world.

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Refresh your mind…how could they truly refresh their minds? How do I refresh my mind?
Five Ways to Refresh Your Mind
Here are five ways I’ve discovered to refresh the mind–five ideas to offer mental or intellectual refreshment. Some of them would work better for someone who needs the refreshment of a little intellectual stimulation, while others would work better for someone whose mind is on overload and needs to find some intellectual rest.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Okay stiLL about 'MINDSET'...Before you pace to train your positive mindset, you must reading previous posting 'Opinion can make Mindset'
Let us to rehashed about mindset. Now I would ask you, so are you ready for this??
1. What do you mind system if you want to sleep every night?
2. What are you ways of thinking in to interact with your lovely friend and unlovely friend?
3. What are you ways of thinking to stand before of temptation with and outside influence?